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  "title": "top scoring links : AmItheAsshole",
  "description": "A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ \"Most Controversial\" at /r/AITAFiltered!",
  "link": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/top/?t=week",
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    {
      "title": "AITA for making my sister's gender reveal cake grey because she wouldn't tell me the gender?",
      "description": "I (22M) bake as a hobby, and I'm actually pretty good at it-like I get paid under the table for weddings and baby showers kind of good. My sister is pregnant and wanted me to make the cake for her gender reveal. Cool, no problem. I asked her to send me the info so I could prep the inside-classic pink or blue filling. She says, \"Oh no, I want to be surprised too. Just make it neutral for the reveal and we'll all find out together.\" I was like... huh? So you want a gender reveal cake with no gender revealed...? She says she'll have someone email the info to me later. That someone never did. Deadline comes, and I still have no gender. So I make the cake. It's grey inside. Grey outside. Just full on cement vibes. I even added little fondant clouds for effect. It still tasted great, but visually? Grim as hell. The reveal day comes, they cut into it, and my sister looks pissed. Her husband is confused. People start murmuring. Then she pulls me aside like, \"Why would you make it grey? That's so passive-aggressive.\" calmly reminded her that no one told me the gender. I literally had no data to work with. I told her I wasn't about to guess or go full improv on someone's baby cake. Now my mom says I embarrassed her in front of the family and that I \"should've tried harder.\" Tried harder to do what, summon the gender through vibes? So... AlTA for making the most neutral reveal cake in history? Edit: I actually did follow up-asked her a couple days before the reveal if the info had been sent, and she just said something like \"yeah, someone's taking care of it.\" I figured it was handled. I didn't want to pester her since she seemed chill about it at the time.   submitted by   /u/MilktheAlgorithm [link]   [comments]",
      "link": "",
      "pubDate": "2025-05-09T02:40:44+00:00"
    },
    {
      "title": "AITA for not letting my neighbor’s kid ruin my lawn in the name of imagination?",
      "description": "I live in a quiet suburban neighborhood with your standard backyard, some grass, a few old trees, a weathered shed. Nothing fancy, but I try to keep it tidy. I'm on polite-but-not-close terms with most neighbors. We wave, sometimes chat about the weather, and that’s about it. There’s a family two doors down with a boy who’s maybe 9 or 10. Lately, he’s gone full pirate mode. I mean fully committed. Eyepatch, cardboard sword, yelling \"ye be cursed\" at squirrels. Honestly? Pretty wholesome. At first. Then I started noticing small holes in my yard. Just little ones near the fence. I assumed it was raccoons. But then the holes got bigger. One morning I went out and found the ground behind my shed completely torn up, with clumps of grass tossed around and a \"map\" pinned to the tree with a stick. Eventually I caught him out there mid-dig. I asked him what he was doing and he straight up said, “I’m hiding my treasure. No one must know. This is the perfect hiding spot.” I told him calmly, “Hey, this is my yard. You can’t dig here.” He got a little huffy but ran off. I figured that was the end of it. Nope. Next day, there’s a new hole. Bigger. A tin lunchbox half-buried behind the shed. I dig it up and it’s full of Pokémon cards, fake jewels, toy coins, and a few crumpled five dollar bills. I bring it to his mom and explain what’s going on. She immediately gets defensive. No apology. Just a heavy sigh and a “Well he’s just using his imagination. I think it’s sweet.” I told her I didn’t mind the creativity, just not in my yard. She rolled her eyes and said, “Can’t you just let him have this? It’s not like your grass is that nice anyway.” That one actually stunned me. I said, as politely as possible, that I didn’t want holes being dug on my property by someone else’s kid. I handed over the box and left. That night, she sends a long text telling me I humiliated her son, crushed his imagination, and “created an environment where children can’t feel safe being children.” She said he cried for over an hour and now thinks I’m “the villain in his story.” (Her words.) I didn’t reply. I get it, he’s a kid. I didn’t yell, I didn’t shame him, and I even gave the stuff back. But I’m not thrilled about my yard being turned into a sandbox and getting insulted for not being okay with it. So… AITA for drawing a line and not entertaining a pirate storyline that involved my yard getting wrecked?   submitted by   /u/TripleDigitMan [link]   [comments]",
      "link": "",
      "pubDate": "2025-05-06T15:31:03+00:00"
    },
    {
      "title": "AITA for not letting my boyfriend come on vacation with me because he's a picky eater?",
      "description": "EDIT: I am breaking up with him. After seeing a glimpse into my future via your responses, I realized I cannot do this and it will eventually wreck us. Thank you. My boyfriend has tons a food restrictions and is picky in general. He basically can only eat chicken fingers, grilled cheese, Mac and cheese, and pad Thai. Ive never seen him eat a vegetable. We just started dating a few months ago and I love him, but I eat everything and am very laid back. I know I will have to plan my entire day around finding food he can eat, on top of listening to him complain that things aren't the same. Even if a restaurant does have chicken fingers or Mac and cheese, it won't be the same as what we get at home and I just dont want to hear about it while Im on vacation. AITA? I feel bad.   submitted by   /u/makeme_f4f_pdx [link]   [comments]",
      "link": "",
      "pubDate": "2025-05-07T09:43:23+00:00"
    }
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  "title": "Weird: page not found",
  "description": "The subreddit for the weird, strange, odd and bizarre.",
  "link": "https://www.reddit.com/r/Weird/comments/1kiotc8/these_suddenly_appeared_after_training_should_i/top/?t=week",
  "items": []
}
{
  "title": "top scoring links : u/fab1an",
  "description": "",
  "link": "",
  "items": []
}

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5/4/2025, 10:56:35 PM

APangrypenguin3 mo. ago
{
  "title": "top scoring links : AmItheAsshole",
  "description": "A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ \"Most Controversial\" at /r/AITAFiltered!",
  "link": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/top/?t=week",
  "items": [
    {
      "title": "AITA for making my sister's gender reveal cake grey because she wouldn't tell me the gender?",
      "description": "I (22M) bake as a hobby, and I'm actually pretty good at it-like I get paid under the table for weddings and baby showers kind of good. My sister is pregnant and wanted me to make the cake for her gender reveal. Cool, no problem. I asked her to send me the info so I could prep the inside-classic pink or blue filling. She says, \"Oh no, I want to be surprised too. Just make it neutral for the reveal and we'll all find out together.\" I was like... huh? So you want a gender reveal cake with no gender revealed...? She says she'll have someone email the info to me later. That someone never did. Deadline comes, and I still have no gender. So I make the cake. It's grey inside. Grey outside. Just full on cement vibes. I even added little fondant clouds for effect. It still tasted great, but visually? Grim as hell. The reveal day comes, they cut into it, and my sister looks pissed. Her husband is confused. People start murmuring. Then she pulls me aside like, \"Why would you make it grey? That's so passive-aggressive.\" calmly reminded her that no one told me the gender. I literally had no data to work with. I told her I wasn't about to guess or go full improv on someone's baby cake. Now my mom says I embarrassed her in front of the family and that I \"should've tried harder.\" Tried harder to do what, summon the gender through vibes? So... AlTA for making the most neutral reveal cake in history? Edit: I actually did follow up-asked her a couple days before the reveal if the info had been sent, and she just said something like \"yeah, someone's taking care of it.\" I figured it was handled. I didn't want to pester her since she seemed chill about it at the time.   submitted by   /u/MilktheAlgorithm [link]   [comments]",
      "link": "",
      "pubDate": "2025-05-09T02:40:44+00:00"
    },
    {
      "title": "AITA for not letting my neighbor’s kid ruin my lawn in the name of imagination?",
      "description": "I live in a quiet suburban neighborhood with your standard backyard, some grass, a few old trees, a weathered shed. Nothing fancy, but I try to keep it tidy. I'm on polite-but-not-close terms with most neighbors. We wave, sometimes chat about the weather, and that’s about it. There’s a family two doors down with a boy who’s maybe 9 or 10. Lately, he’s gone full pirate mode. I mean fully committed. Eyepatch, cardboard sword, yelling \"ye be cursed\" at squirrels. Honestly? Pretty wholesome. At first. Then I started noticing small holes in my yard. Just little ones near the fence. I assumed it was raccoons. But then the holes got bigger. One morning I went out and found the ground behind my shed completely torn up, with clumps of grass tossed around and a \"map\" pinned to the tree with a stick. Eventually I caught him out there mid-dig. I asked him what he was doing and he straight up said, “I’m hiding my treasure. No one must know. This is the perfect hiding spot.” I told him calmly, “Hey, this is my yard. You can’t dig here.” He got a little huffy but ran off. I figured that was the end of it. Nope. Next day, there’s a new hole. Bigger. A tin lunchbox half-buried behind the shed. I dig it up and it’s full of Pokémon cards, fake jewels, toy coins, and a few crumpled five dollar bills. I bring it to his mom and explain what’s going on. She immediately gets defensive. No apology. Just a heavy sigh and a “Well he’s just using his imagination. I think it’s sweet.” I told her I didn’t mind the creativity, just not in my yard. She rolled her eyes and said, “Can’t you just let him have this? It’s not like your grass is that nice anyway.” That one actually stunned me. I said, as politely as possible, that I didn’t want holes being dug on my property by someone else’s kid. I handed over the box and left. That night, she sends a long text telling me I humiliated her son, crushed his imagination, and “created an environment where children can’t feel safe being children.” She said he cried for over an hour and now thinks I’m “the villain in his story.” (Her words.) I didn’t reply. I get it, he’s a kid. I didn’t yell, I didn’t shame him, and I even gave the stuff back. But I’m not thrilled about my yard being turned into a sandbox and getting insulted for not being okay with it. So… AITA for drawing a line and not entertaining a pirate storyline that involved my yard getting wrecked?   submitted by   /u/TripleDigitMan [link]   [comments]",
      "link": "",
      "pubDate": "2025-05-06T15:31:03+00:00"
    },
    {
      "title": "AITA for not letting my boyfriend come on vacation with me because he's a picky eater?",
      "description": "EDIT: I am breaking up with him. After seeing a glimpse into my future via your responses, I realized I cannot do this and it will eventually wreck us. Thank you. My boyfriend has tons a food restrictions and is picky in general. He basically can only eat chicken fingers, grilled cheese, Mac and cheese, and pad Thai. Ive never seen him eat a vegetable. We just started dating a few months ago and I love him, but I eat everything and am very laid back. I know I will have to plan my entire day around finding food he can eat, on top of listening to him complain that things aren't the same. Even if a restaurant does have chicken fingers or Mac and cheese, it won't be the same as what we get at home and I just dont want to hear about it while Im on vacation. AITA? I feel bad.   submitted by   /u/makeme_f4f_pdx [link]   [comments]",
      "link": "",
      "pubDate": "2025-05-07T09:43:23+00:00"
    }
  ]
}
appelsiensamappelsiensam3 mo. ago
{
  "title": "top scoring links : AmItheAsshole",
  "description": "A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ \"Most Controversial\" at /r/AITAFiltered!",
  "link": "",
  "items": [
    {
      "title": "AITA for refusing to change someone's baby's diaper?",
      "description": "My wife and I have been married 10+ years and have a few kids. SIL and her husband had a baby 2 years ago. No major complaints - they just tend to ask for people to do stuff that I would think they'd do themselves. They'll come over our house (they live an hour away) and they'll ask ahead of time if we have their kid's favorite crackers on hand. Why they don't just pack the crackers, I don't know (they are well off, money not an issue). If one of them leaves the room, they'll ask one of us (my wife or kids) to be \"in charge\" of the baby - even if the other parent is right there, just scrolling on their phone or something. But whenever I say something to my wife, she says I'm being too much. The other day, we're having a dinner at MIL's house when the baby had a poopy diaper. SIL looks at me and say in the sweetest voice \"Uncle (my name), can you change the diaper?\" (she frequently does this when we're there but this was the first time I was asked) I answered, politely, \"No, I'm sorry, I don't do that.\" \"You....don't do diapers??\" \"No, I don't do other people's kid's diapers if their mom or dad is around. I mean if I'm babysitting, sure thing, but yea - if the parents are around - I just feel like its their job.\" SIL looks like she's ready to cry \"Well...I feel selfish.\" I smiled to try and set her at ease, \"Not trying to make you feel any way, just telling you a boundary is all.\" The table got really awkward as she got up and did the diaper. Afterwards my wife blamed me for making SIL feel bad and said I could've just changed the diaper. Not trying to make anyone feel bad - but I've had 3 kids and I always took responsibility -I watched them, I packed for them, and I changed them. I'm not looking to be a secondary parent for this kid.   submitted by   /u/Late4AnAppointment [link]   [comments]",
      "pubDate": "2025-04-30T19:15:11+00:00"
    },
    {
      "title": "AITA for correctly guessing my friend's baby's sex?",
      "description": "On the weekend my wife (38f) and I (39m) went to our friend's \"gender reveal\". For background information, our friend already has 2 boys, and she told my wife that she is hoping for a girl this time. In the car on the way there, my wife asked me what gender I thought the baby would be. I said that given that the sex ratio at birth is about 105 boys for every 100 girls, that my guess is that this child would be a boy. My wife said that given our friends had 2 boys already, that surely there would be more chance of a girl this time. I replied that the 2 boys were not relevant to the sex of the child our friends were expecting, and that there was still about a 51% chance this child would be a boy. At the \"gender reveal\", it was announced that this child would also be a boy. Although our friend tried to appear happy at the party, it was clear that she was disappointed that this child would not be a girl. My wife also appeared to be disappointed as well. On the drive back home, my wife got angry with me, and said that I \"could have been more supportive\" and that I \"shouldn't have been so mathematical\" with my guess about the baby's sex. Edited to add: \"could have been supportive\" referred to my guess that the child would be a boy, and my reasoning for that guess. I told her that my response was perfectly reasonable to the questions she asked me. She didn't like that and stayed quiet for the rest of the drive home. So Reddit, AITA?   submitted by   /u/AITA-babysexguess [link]   [comments]",
      "pubDate": "2025-04-28T12:38:43+00:00"
    },
    {
      "title": "AITA for telling a friend exactly why my wife and I wouldn't go on a trip with her.",
      "description": "My wife and I (both 32, both F) have a friend named Anna (33). Anna is so sweet, very funny and can also be very naive. While this isn't always a bad thing, she is at times ignorant of how the world works/news etc. Anna has family that owns a large vacation property in another country. She's long wanted to take a friends trip there, and is finally planning on doing so. Multiple people have been invited, and this past weekend when she and I got coffee, my wife and I were invited. The problem is, homosexuality is criminalized in this country. In case you missed it, I am a woman married to a woman and I would not feel safe traveling there. I would especially be worried about my wife- she has a very classic \"butch\" look whereas I am more feminine. I know a lot of times these laws will pertain more towards gay men, but still. We would not feel safe, and that's what matters. (FWIW, my wife knew we were probably going to be invited and said \"fuck no\" to any idea of traveling there when I mentioned it. I didn't make a choice for the both of us by myself.) I told Anna, no, I'm sorry but my wife and I would not be able to travel there. Well, she pressed why, I said \"because we're gay. That country criminalizes gay people.\" She just said \"oh\" and kind of awkwardly changed the topic. Later though, I got a text. She said she felt I embarrassed her for not knowing and while she didn't know, it's not like she's homophobic or anything, just that she wants to go on a trip there and why did I have to be so blunt about it? I'm really frustrated, and also- I feel bad. I'm not sure why. I guess I could have made an excuse, that airfare is pricey right now or we had something else planned but? My wife is saying I didn't do anything wrong. I don't know. AITA? EDIT- forgot to add, but I didn't include which country because I felt it was wrong. The government etc makes these choices- I would feel bad putting the blame on a whole country that certainly has an LGBTQ population, hidden or not. It's in the Middle East and that's all I'll say.   submitted by   /u/Ok-Tower7381 [link]   [comments]",
      "pubDate": "2025-05-01T01:04:37+00:00"
    }
  ]
}
APangrypenguin3 mo. ago
{
  "title": "top scoring links : AmItheAsshole",
  "description": "A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ \"Most Controversial\" at /r/AITAFiltered!",
  "link": "",
  "items": [
    {
      "title": "AITA for refusing to change someone's baby's diaper?",
      "description": "My wife and I have been married 10+ years and have a few kids. SIL and her husband had a baby 2 years ago. No major complaints - they just tend to ask for people to do stuff that I would think they'd do themselves. They'll come over our house (they live an hour away) and they'll ask ahead of time if we have their kid's favorite crackers on hand. Why they don't just pack the crackers, I don't know (they are well off, money not an issue). If one of them leaves the room, they'll ask one of us (my wife or kids) to be \"in charge\" of the baby - even if the other parent is right there, just scrolling on their phone or something. But whenever I say something to my wife, she says I'm being too much. The other day, we're having a dinner at MIL's house when the baby had a poopy diaper. SIL looks at me and say in the sweetest voice \"Uncle (my name), can you change the diaper?\" (she frequently does this when we're there but this was the first time I was asked) I answered, politely, \"No, I'm sorry, I don't do that.\" \"You....don't do diapers??\" \"No, I don't do other people's kid's diapers if their mom or dad is around. I mean if I'm babysitting, sure thing, but yea - if the parents are around - I just feel like its their job.\" SIL looks like she's ready to cry \"Well...I feel selfish.\" I smiled to try and set her at ease, \"Not trying to make you feel any way, just telling you a boundary is all.\" The table got really awkward as she got up and did the diaper. Afterwards my wife blamed me for making SIL feel bad and said I could've just changed the diaper. Not trying to make anyone feel bad - but I've had 3 kids and I always took responsibility -I watched them, I packed for them, and I changed them. I'm not looking to be a secondary parent for this kid.   submitted by   /u/Late4AnAppointment [link]   [comments]",
      "pubDate": "2025-04-30T19:15:11+00:00"
    },
    {
      "title": "AITA for correctly guessing my friend's baby's sex?",
      "description": "On the weekend my wife (38f) and I (39m) went to our friend's \"gender reveal\". For background information, our friend already has 2 boys, and she told my wife that she is hoping for a girl this time. In the car on the way there, my wife asked me what gender I thought the baby would be. I said that given that the sex ratio at birth is about 105 boys for every 100 girls, that my guess is that this child would be a boy. My wife said that given our friends had 2 boys already, that surely there would be more chance of a girl this time. I replied that the 2 boys were not relevant to the sex of the child our friends were expecting, and that there was still about a 51% chance this child would be a boy. At the \"gender reveal\", it was announced that this child would also be a boy. Although our friend tried to appear happy at the party, it was clear that she was disappointed that this child would not be a girl. My wife also appeared to be disappointed as well. On the drive back home, my wife got angry with me, and said that I \"could have been more supportive\" and that I \"shouldn't have been so mathematical\" with my guess about the baby's sex. Edited to add: \"could have been supportive\" referred to my guess that the child would be a boy, and my reasoning for that guess. I told her that my response was perfectly reasonable to the questions she asked me. She didn't like that and stayed quiet for the rest of the drive home. So Reddit, AITA?   submitted by   /u/AITA-babysexguess [link]   [comments]",
      "pubDate": "2025-04-28T12:38:43+00:00"
    },
    {
      "title": "AITA for telling a friend exactly why my wife and I wouldn't go on a trip with her.",
      "description": "My wife and I (both 32, both F) have a friend named Anna (33). Anna is so sweet, very funny and can also be very naive. While this isn't always a bad thing, she is at times ignorant of how the world works/news etc. Anna has family that owns a large vacation property in another country. She's long wanted to take a friends trip there, and is finally planning on doing so. Multiple people have been invited, and this past weekend when she and I got coffee, my wife and I were invited. The problem is, homosexuality is criminalized in this country. In case you missed it, I am a woman married to a woman and I would not feel safe traveling there. I would especially be worried about my wife- she has a very classic \"butch\" look whereas I am more feminine. I know a lot of times these laws will pertain more towards gay men, but still. We would not feel safe, and that's what matters. (FWIW, my wife knew we were probably going to be invited and said \"fuck no\" to any idea of traveling there when I mentioned it. I didn't make a choice for the both of us by myself.) I told Anna, no, I'm sorry but my wife and I would not be able to travel there. Well, she pressed why, I said \"because we're gay. That country criminalizes gay people.\" She just said \"oh\" and kind of awkwardly changed the topic. Later though, I got a text. She said she felt I embarrassed her for not knowing and while she didn't know, it's not like she's homophobic or anything, just that she wants to go on a trip there and why did I have to be so blunt about it? I'm really frustrated, and also- I feel bad. I'm not sure why. I guess I could have made an excuse, that airfare is pricey right now or we had something else planned but? My wife is saying I didn't do anything wrong. I don't know. AITA? EDIT- forgot to add, but I didn't include which country because I felt it was wrong. The government etc makes these choices- I would feel bad putting the blame on a whole country that certainly has an LGBTQ population, hidden or not. It's in the Middle East and that's all I'll say.   submitted by   /u/Ok-Tower7381 [link]   [comments]",
      "pubDate": "2025-05-01T01:04:37+00:00"
    }
  ]
}
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